A few weeks ago, Doug and I had a holiday. We spent a week avoiding the news, visiting with old friends, taking long walks, eating good food, enjoying art, knitting, and watching lots and lots of tennis. Meanwhile, Emma was off on a crazy, fabulous adventure. I intended to write a post when I got home about our trips. However, when we got back to the real world, we read the news, and I must say that things were pretty shitty. I thought “maybe now is not the time to write about good things; I will wait until next weekend.” The next weekend came and the world seemed to be in an even worse place and the post didn’t get written. Now a new weekend has arrived and I’m thinking that maybe avoiding writing about holidays with old friends, long walks, good food, art, tennis and world travelling is not the solution. Maybe we need to write about such things. And maybe we need to read about such things. So here goes…
We took our holiday in Potsdam. We both needed a break and were feeling fairly exhausted at the end of the term, and wanted to relax. We moved to Potsdam 30 years ago and lived there for more than a decade. It was among the nicest times in our lives and we have very good memories associated with the place. Our apartment was next to the Park Sansouci, with its beautiful palaces, gardens, statues and walkways. Doug and I spent a very hot day walking all over the park, revisiting favourite spots.

We stayed at our dear friend Inge’s apartment. She and her partner, Michael, made us feel at home. We have known Inge for 30 years so we can be completely relaxed together. She had the week off work and was equally stressed and needing a break. Inge and I both love watching tennis. We were there for the final week of the French Open. We watched lots and lots of tennis. Doug and Michael will say that we watched far too much tennis. They might even say that we spent an inordinate amount of time being couch potatoes. This is Inge and me watching tennis:
I knitted while watching:
(Full disclosure for knitters: I was knitting a Sabai tank in Knitting for Olive Pure Silk. Yes, it is brown. Yes, this is way outside of my normal palette. I have now finished the tank and it is currently blocking, so I will report soon.)
Here are Doug and Inge and I enjoying a glass of wine by the lake at Schloss Golm.
Ten minutes after those photos were taken, there was a very sudden, ferocious thunderstorm and we had to pick up our glasses and wine bottle and run across the lawn for the Schloss. We ate a dinner of white asparagus and schnitzel while watching the lightning from the covered veranda until the wind blew the rain right on top of us. We then retreated inside and finished the meal surrounded by photos of glamorous movie stars who had stayed there long ago. It was great fun.
We spent time re-visiting old haunts. We went to the University at Golm where Doug was a Professor for over a decade. We drove around the countryside and walked all over Potsdam and spent a few days walking around Berlin. A highlight was a day at the Beelitz Sanatorium, a tuberculosis hospital and sanatorium built in the late 1800s in Beelitz. It later became a Soviet military hospital and then was abandoned in 1994 and left to rot. We took a tour of the hospital there, which was interesting and haunting. The forest has overtaken the ruins, with trees growing out of the crumbling buildings. There is now an amazing walkway above the tree canopy. From it, you can see miles of forest and look down on the ruins. This post provides a nice description of the place in English.
We had a fantastic visit with our very dear friends Sandra, Erik, Timo and Mika. We have known Sandra for 30 years, and remember when she and Erik first met. Sandra once babysat for toddler Emma and baby Leah and managed to eventually overcome the traumatic experience and have two kids of her own. Doug and Erik had so many adventures together and were co-conspirators in renovation madness. Timo is Doug’s godchild. Here we are with Sandra, Timo, and Erik:
And here is Doug with Timo. I totally love this photo:
We unfortunately didn’t see Mika in person on this trip, but we got filled in on all his news. When our families get together, we laugh so much! It makes me happy to see these kids have grown up to be just as wildly smart, and kind, and talented, and funny, as they were as children.
We took the above photos at the Atelier Olafur Eliasson. Erik has worked with Eliasson for 20 years, and gave us a lovely tour of the workshops. We also saw Eliasson’s new exhibit, which is very small but just fantastic. I love this photo of Timo, Erik, and Sandra interacting with one of the pieces:
Sandra, by the way, is also a crafter and she has started her own amazing crafting business. Here is a link. She is a super entrepreneur!
Doug and I explored two new art spaces in Potsdam (new since we moved away). We spent a rainy afternoon in the Museum Barberini, which has a lovely collection of Impressionist art, the Hasso Plattner Collection, including 40 paintings by Monet. The art is beautifully arranged and lighted and the museum was spacious and not crowded. I compare it to a recent Impressionist exhibit we visited in London in which we felt like sardines in the stifling crowd. On our last afternoon, we visited Das Minsk, also in Potsdam, which has an interesting exhibit of art from the GDR. It is very well signposted and we learned a lot about art in the former East.
While we were in Potsdam, Emma was on an adventure of her own. She and her friend, Brooke, flew to Goa, India, for the wedding of their friend, Himani. The three of them were best friends at university. Himani’s wedding was absolutely beautiful; a traditional Indian wedding which lasted four days with multiple ceremonies and joyous celebration. Emma had an amazing time. Here are a few photos:
Here is the beautiful bride, Himani:
The crazy part of this adventure is that they literally circumnavigated the globe (Brooke actually flew even further). First, Brooke flew from Toronto to Vancouver to meet up with Emma. Then, Emma and Brooke flew to London where they had a 9-hour layover. They took a train from Heathrow into London and then walked all over the place. Brooke had never been to London, so Emma gave her a guided tour. They walked 20,000 steps, and saw Buckingham Palace, St. James Park, Big Ben, Westminster, walked along the embankment, had a meal at Covent Garden, and coffee at Seven Dials.
They then returned to Heathrow and caught a plane to Mumbai. At this point, Emma had spent two nights on a plane and Brooke had spent three. There was yet another layover before a further flight to Goa. This was followed by one day to recover and play on the beach, followed by the wedding with four glorious, jam-packed days and nights of fun. They had to perform a dance for the ceremony and so they also squeezed in rehearsals to learn the Bollywood-inspired dance.
When the wedding was over, they took a flight back to Mumbai, and then caught a flight to Japan! There they had a 7-hour layover and again left the airport to go sightseeing.
From there, they took another night flight back to Vancouver, thus completing their mad dash around the world (after which Brooke got back on a plane for her flight home to Toronto). You can only do this when you are young.
And that is the story of a relaxing holiday filled with old friends, long walks, art, knitting and tennis, and a crazy mad-dash holiday around the globe filled with friendship, dancing, ceremony, colour, and very little sleep.
I’ll finish this post by noting that after watching nearly the entire French Open, Doug and I flew home on the Sunday evening, thereby missing the men’s final. When our plane landed I found a message from my mom saying “that was the best tennis I have ever seen”. Oh well. Wimbledon is coming up and I’ve just ordered more yarn.