My dad was born on March 2, 1936. Today would have been his 90th birthday. When he was a boy, his family lost their farm in the Dust Bowl and migrated to California. I suspect this contributed to his love of Steinbeck. He joined the Army, was a paratrooper (I cannot believe my dad jumped out of airplanes), did a tour in Europe, and then came home and went to University. He got his PhD in Sociology and spent most of his working life teaching and researching; he specialised in race relations and civil rights. I probably became an academic because of him. (I remember thinking as a child “If Dad can get a PhD, then I can too. I will get three of them!”)
My dad loved the outdoors, especially the mountains. He loved to hike. He had a very dry sense of humour and told a great shaggy dog story. I was very gullible and nearly always believed his stories, especially the ridiculous ones. He loved jazz and went to see it live whenever he could, often with my sister. He was fascinated by politics and history, and he read anything and everything on 20th century American politics. Even near the end, after 12 years with Parkinson’s and cognitive decline setting in, Daddy could beat us all at quizzing – as long as the questions were about politics.
Dad taught me three important lessons in life. First, question authority. Second, always check your sources. Third, and most importantly, be kind. Happy Birthday, Dad! I miss you! I’m glad you can’t see what’s happening down here.
<3 I went to Jazz at Lincoln Center last week, the first time I have been since daddy died, with my friend Herta, who also loves jazz. It was great to be back at the place we loved so much.
Thinking of you today. The few times I met your father is was very kind and nice.
What a lovely tribute. My dad also did many surprising things (rodeo rider) before his long career in academia.
His piece of advice. Marriage is not a 50/50 thing. It’s each person giving 100% 100% of the time.
Your dad sounds like a wonderful person – I am sorry for your loss!